tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post5977965159168884475..comments2023-05-23T14:31:22.445+05:30Comments on Stork Stalking: Out of the funk!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-54454510331972252832011-01-11T04:29:05.638+05:302011-01-11T04:29:05.638+05:30I am glad to hear you have more colour in your lif...I am glad to hear you have more colour in your life again. NYC will be an exciting move, I am a little envious :) I do feel for you though, waiting one year is very tough, but I completely understand your reasons for doing so. Even my 6 mth wait seems too long to me, but I know it is the right choice.<br /><br />Your mum sounds very wise. I have thought this before. Heed her advice, but that doesn't mean you can't experiment with vit D and do some research on the side. These things are important to living your life too. Don't spend time with people who make you unhappy, although this is sometimes easier said than done when they are part of a larger social group.<br /><br />My new 2011 maxim is "get busy living" and I damn well intend to oblige! xxmycheapviolinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-79250527516178186912011-01-10T07:02:37.304+05:302011-01-10T07:02:37.304+05:30I've just suffered a second miscarriage and am...I've just suffered a second miscarriage and am learning about how tall the fences around me need to be much of the time. It's a bit of a relief to learn this at last, so when a well-meaning friend or acquaintance starts to tell me how I should change my diet I stare until she finishes her sentence and obviously change the subject instead of explaining myself. Sometimes I think people need to talk around your/my grief because they are so uncomfortable, when all I really want is people to say is "Wow, that sucks/I'm so sorry" and give a hug. Also, I avoid pregnant friends or friends with new babies entirely and do not feel guilty about it. Glad your funk lifted.marriedhappynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-38852770002969288162011-01-09T01:52:15.349+05:302011-01-09T01:52:15.349+05:30I'm sorry that this friend isn't supportiv...I'm sorry that this friend isn't supportive. I'm sorry that she can't accept that just because your choices aren't her choices, they are not bad ones. How boring would life, and friendships for that matter, be if we all did the same things? And the word "natural" makes.me.so.stabby.Chttp://theportofindecision.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-22010457556834846172011-01-08T23:23:56.031+05:302011-01-08T23:23:56.031+05:30"There is really nobody to be angry with when..."There is really nobody to be angry with when something like this happens, though you really wish you could find a target to rage at. This woman, with her arrogance, presumption and ignorance is the only person I can be comfortably angry at, although its certainly not her fault (or anybody else's) that my babies died" - <br /><br />- This is EXACTLY how I feel about one person who has been really hurtful to me. My DH was wondering why she makes me so incredibly angry and I'm realizing that I'm basically taking the hurt she's inflicted on me and using it as an excuse to blame her for everything. I can't even see her without being angry.Lexhttp://notagainrpl.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-52858160732528446062011-01-08T22:58:23.810+05:302011-01-08T22:58:23.810+05:30Thanks....yes, I grew up there!Thanks....yes, I grew up there!Jayhttp://aboutplanb.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-1022800737884677412011-01-08T22:57:58.875+05:302011-01-08T22:57:58.875+05:30BB, well, I had no idea when I told her she would ...BB, well, I had no idea when I told her she would turn out to be like this. I've told a lot of my close friends and they have all reacted positively and been supportive to the best of their abilities, This was the only person I told that I've regretted telling, but knowing her as I did then, I could not have predicted that she would behave in such a manner. I'm going to be much more careful in the future.Jayhttp://aboutplanb.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-4204661060205865632011-01-08T21:08:44.690+05:302011-01-08T21:08:44.690+05:30It sounds like she's the kind of person who on...It sounds like she's the kind of person who only sees her own views in life and doesn't respect different beliefs and choices. I'm surprised you've shared what you are doing with her and disappointed in her inability to be a real friend. Your move to NYC seems like a great one, great timing! Glad you are starting to see beyond the shades of grey...Single Mom To Behttp://twitter.com/singlemom2bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-6582830079649418212011-01-08T20:13:52.909+05:302011-01-08T20:13:52.909+05:30I'm sorry about your friend. Whatever her thou...I'm sorry about your friend. Whatever her thoughts on the subject, she has no right to force those thoughts on you, especially right now. Are you from India?Runny Yolkhttp://runnyyolk.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-1198427921127820532011-01-08T09:52:45.595+05:302011-01-08T09:52:45.595+05:30I miss being happy too.I miss being happy too.Turningofpaigenoreply@blogger.com