tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post5232839699449460075..comments2023-05-23T14:31:22.445+05:30Comments on Stork Stalking: How I'm faring..Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-50535207751891144062012-07-31T20:53:57.915+05:302012-07-31T20:53:57.915+05:30Oh Jay, I'm so very sorry for this loss. I...Oh Jay, I'm so very sorry for this loss. I'm glad your mom is coming to help you through this. Sending you love as you heal...Alexhttp://manyadventuresofalex.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-74717491258319828382012-07-31T19:12:09.507+05:302012-07-31T19:12:09.507+05:30I'm really glad your mom can come and be with ...I'm really glad your mom can come and be with you, and that she will be there today. I'm also glad for you that this m/c doesn't feel as utterly devastating as the first one. Not that this one is great or anything. I know that underneath the numbness, you must feel a lot of pain. <br />It is hard not to blame oneself when something like this occurs. It feels like such a failure on our part, and a betrayal of the body. It's hard to anchor ourselves at the fact that we are not responsible for this. You have done EVERYTHING, and I do mean everything, you could to make this pregnancy successful. And even in the face of this tragedy, you are able to focus on doing more (ie RPL panel).<br />I believe that you will be a mother, Jay. I know that in my heart. Augustanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-27436566763655056942012-07-31T04:41:48.849+05:302012-07-31T04:41:48.849+05:30YOU are not failing. YOU are not a failure.
HUGS. ...YOU are not failing. YOU are not a failure.<br />HUGS. I am so sorry for your loss :(Theresahttp://acoursetothefinishline.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-9387246922634516592012-07-30T18:20:35.599+05:302012-07-30T18:20:35.599+05:30Time with family sounds perfect for you right now....Time with family sounds perfect for you right now. And I second the looking smoking-hot at a wedding plan. I'm sure that will give you a little lift just when you desperately need one.<br /><br />I'm so sorry, Jay. Miscarriage is awful. I hate it. I hate the fear about the future that always come with it. I hate that we can't predict it, can't prevent it, so often don't know why it happens. As others have said, I know so many cases of multiple miscarriages followed by a baby that-- for some reason-- sticks around. So random. It gives hope, but also sadness--why not this baby, right now?<br /><br />I hate that you're wading through these questions again.Secret Slopernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-4964703863221518652012-07-29T11:34:23.035+05:302012-07-29T11:34:23.035+05:30I am so sorry for your loss Jay. I'm glad your...I am so sorry for your loss Jay. I'm glad your mother will be coming over and then you can go to India soon and be with the rest of your family. I'm also glad that you are coping better with this loss but I really wish that you didn't have a loss to cope with again. Once again, I'm so sorry.IsisIrisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-90610917223447932982012-07-29T07:41:45.779+05:302012-07-29T07:41:45.779+05:30So glad that your Mom can come over and be with yo...So glad that your Mom can come over and be with you. You are indeed blessed with a wonderful family. Hope you get some answers from your RPL tests. Take care of yourself and enjoy your stay in India and your brothers wedding.Sunflowernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-38765181563051756352012-07-29T05:58:06.636+05:302012-07-29T05:58:06.636+05:30Try not to be hard on yourself. I went through th...Try not to be hard on yourself. I went through the same thing - 3 losses and then a RPL panel. There were no real answers in my case which was the hardest thing for me to accept but on my next try, 1 month after my D&C, I was pregnant again with twins. And this one stuck. My heart breaks for what you're going through right now. You sound strong though - stronger than you may think. Thinking of you.MeAnd Babynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-54973193249773612552012-07-29T01:46:48.841+05:302012-07-29T01:46:48.841+05:30I've been checking in periodically. I'm g...I've been checking in periodically. I'm glad your mom is coming to be with you and that you will be with your family soon. Hopefully it will help you heal sooner. You are in my thoughts. Nellhttp://mn-adventuresafter40.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-23021011417993089512012-07-29T01:29:26.894+05:302012-07-29T01:29:26.894+05:30I am glad that you are doing alright. I completel...I am glad that you are doing alright. I completely understand both the things that are bothering you. When I first began trying, I wanted to shout it from the roof tops. Pretty soon, I stopped talking to people about it. Try after try, I didn't want to keep telling people that it wasn't working. And regarding the second, I hope that whatever you end up doing to become a mother will feel just right (not too far or too much). I am glad your mom is coming. My thoughts are with you. Enjoy India and not having people stare at you with scorn.Jenhttp://afamilyoftwo.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-73451456081366082902012-07-29T00:28:29.146+05:302012-07-29T00:28:29.146+05:30I'm so glad your mom can come and that you wil...I'm so glad your mom can come and that you will be in the loving arms of family. Take each moment as it comes. And I second Nurslouisa on being good to yourself. That's all you can do at this point. <br /><br />As far as the bigger question - the karyotyping will, very hopefully, give you some answers. As well as the RPL panel they're running. May it be something clear, and easily fixable. Delinquenteggsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-5482352435980921462012-07-29T00:11:50.933+05:302012-07-29T00:11:50.933+05:30Sending you lots of love. Nothing you can control ...Sending you lots of love. Nothing you can control or that you did caused this miscarriage I know you know this. Please be kind to yourself.Nurslouisanoreply@blogger.com