tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post1585166074637116020..comments2023-05-23T14:31:22.445+05:30Comments on Stork Stalking: On coping.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-70900636857096601222010-12-01T08:52:11.297+05:302010-12-01T08:52:11.297+05:30There's something to be said for a little bit ...There's something to be said for a little bit of wallowing - I think it's necessary for healing. But I understand your conflicted feelings completely; even though I only had one loss, I felt a lot of what you're feeling now, but perhaps on a smaller scale. I think talking to someone is a very good idea - both to work through your grief now and to be able to figure out how to cope with all that's ahead. <br /><br />I'm thinking of you often, and I'm so glad you're with family right now!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14647211529119137824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-58258256953728390352010-12-01T05:28:26.753+05:302010-12-01T05:28:26.753+05:30I also wanted you to know that I've nominated ...I also wanted you to know that I've nominated you for the "Cherry on Top" blog award.The Baby Chase Projecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06597972326038892118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-38586896361443713262010-12-01T04:29:06.692+05:302010-12-01T04:29:06.692+05:30Jay, I know you are going through a difficult time...Jay, I know you are going through a difficult time but you will get through this. I know it. You are surrounded by a supportive family and your blog sisters. Take good care of yourself..The Baby Chase Projecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06597972326038892118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-45475286522265739762010-12-01T03:43:34.022+05:302010-12-01T03:43:34.022+05:30Jay - thinking of you today and wanting you to kno...Jay - thinking of you today and wanting you to know I've awarded you the cherry on top award. Hang in there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-36870128642719776462010-11-30T22:01:20.868+05:302010-11-30T22:01:20.868+05:30Jay - I am glad you are finding home a great place...Jay - I am glad you are finding home a great place to recover. As far as going to a city where you know no one, I live an hour outside and even though you don't really know me maybe I can show you some of the city. From everyone I know that has lived there, you will a lot of people fast and they are good people too.Selkie Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14309307735905407798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-20696786992161551112010-11-30T21:51:06.318+05:302010-11-30T21:51:06.318+05:30Jay, late catching up here. Was at my mom's wi...Jay, late catching up here. Was at my mom's with almost no net time (tried to (unsuccessfully) install a router for her), and just saw your recent posts. I'm so sorry. It really sucks.<br /><br />Glad you've decided to go for help. I recently found a therapist who specializes in infertility/loss/smc/donor gamete issues. I'll be glad to pass on her info to you for when you move to our cold city. I wish I'd found her sooner.Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-57886785777361659422010-11-30T20:01:39.425+05:302010-11-30T20:01:39.425+05:30Jay, you are so strong. Knowing when to reach out ...Jay, you are so strong. Knowing when to reach out for help is so valuable.Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-20369565982779764402010-11-30T19:23:57.565+05:302010-11-30T19:23:57.565+05:30It takes tremendous strength and awareness to admi...It takes tremendous strength and awareness to admit you need help getting through a tough time. I think going to therapy is a wise decision as it can give you the space and time to process your thoughts and emotions. It is particularly helpful when you have no one around you whom you can really share those things with. You have such a tenacious spirit that I don't doubt for a second you will find your way towards peace of mind and to holding your child in your arms one day.Jendohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00165146494513112564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-56741164387795694862010-11-30T18:54:00.544+05:302010-11-30T18:54:00.544+05:30There is nothing wrong with getting help through t...There is nothing wrong with getting help through therapy. It will do wonders for the soul and psyche just to be able to process your thoughts and emotions. It may also help you find an appropriate way to grieve so that you can move forward with an open heart. Good luck, Love! We're all rooting for you.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03559804119802837066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-9510059749752868912010-11-30T17:50:44.348+05:302010-11-30T17:50:44.348+05:30I don't think I've ever commented on here ...I don't think I've ever commented on here before but you sound like you have at least figured out something that takes us all awhile to figure out. I'm praying for you and hopefully you will get that wonderful sticky bean soon.<br /><br />Meemawmeemawfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09415480856444218652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-6327185889125164562010-11-30T17:36:44.066+05:302010-11-30T17:36:44.066+05:30Jay, you are in my thoughts. As Randi says, thera...Jay, you are in my thoughts. As Randi says, theray can be a wonderful thing. I am glad that you are with your family right now. Hope they are surrounding you with lots and lots of love.Nellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03273965620333616949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57644621261583551.post-36512110872245735322010-11-30T12:35:42.661+05:302010-11-30T12:35:42.661+05:30Jay - good for you! I'm glad you're findi...Jay - good for you! I'm glad you're finding you can lean on your family and that despite the struggle, you're looking forward. It may not always feel easy or genuine, but when I'm willing to look forward it always ends up helping. As you likely know from my blog, I'm in therapy and I can't advocate enough for it. Sometimes it takes some time to find a therapist you gel with, but it can be a great support system and growth opportunity. One day at a time. Sending out love to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com